Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Transitions

Aren't we all skeptic towards changes? but is it really that tough or is it just illusions that we nurture. It can be as huge as change of country to something as small as the place you sit at work. Till you do it you feel like it can never be the same again. but once you are through you won't find the slightest difference. Atleast that is what I have come to understand from the changes that have happened in my life. Most of us are afraid of the dire consequences that are never there and in the process passup opportuinities that it might have created for us. Change is not inevitable most of the times. How many of us would let things change when we have a say ? Most of us wouldn't, when things are going just fine, and so won't be able to make it better. Yeah! There can be something better. There is always something better to everything. We fail to realise that.
It is more like share market. The more risks you take the better the returns are. I know I know its not always that, but you don't take the risk you'll be where you are throughout your life. It's like the money which you don't want to invest and in due course will lose get reduced in value courtesy inflation. Again it's not that it'll all turn out just fine , but one has to make intelligent guesses as to the way things will go. In the end you win some you lose some. Adding them up to make it a win overall is what is life about.

Wednesday, January 04, 2006

She's so cute ... must be dumb !!!!

I've often listened to my female friends(yeah! I do have some :P) complain about their boyfriends breaking up with them for cuter more dumb girls (what's new in it ;)) . The best part is they make it sound like the guy was equally dumb to commit such a "blunder". This even when the answer is staring at them in the eye. How could they miss it ? Let me help all such confused people solve the mystery. Cuter girl - I don't think that need explaination does it ? Guys after all 8- . Girl who's more dumb - Now this is the part most girls don't understand(I said most, not all O:-) ). The only reason could be your boyfriend , whoever he is , thinks that you are too smart for him, that you'll outwit him one of these days , that he won't be able to match you then , that you'll think he's dumb !!! (Well there are other reasons but, solly, censored :D). My advise to you is don't shed a tear for such a coward. He is just not worth it. He'll end up with someone who won't get his jokes even.

P S: Any resemblence to any person living or dead is purely coincidental :D